Have you ever considered why a man loves you? It’s because he likes the original you, with your way of doing things, your attitude towards everything. But why do women when they fall in love become blind to reason and attach themselves to love so much that they lose themselves?
tpls:
你現在知道…我為什麼不會愛你了嗎？
因為擁有 就是失去的開始- 李大仁 (ep. 2)
Q.Q
原来表面上关心一个人，跟真正了解一个人是两回事。
现在才发现其实很多女孩都希望能找一个像丁立威一样的男朋友。这么甜蜜的爱情，谁不要啊？但慢慢地就会发现，当你最脆弱时，需要的并不是什么甜言蜜语，而是一个懂你的人。当你要做一件事时，想要得到的并不是一个人的允许，而是他的鼓励。
虽然很多人都说丁立威怎么怎么不好，但我却觉得他其实也是也很爱又青，不是吗？事实上，他已经算是一个很不错的男朋友了,只不过出发点不对而已。他好像注重跟又青做的事多过又青的感受。。。想要找一个像李大仁的男朋友/知己好像不太现实吧 T___T~真的会有人那么了解自己吗？
(Source: timetofade)
男女之間不能有純友誼嗎？
Currently watching In Time With You. I think this drama is pretty realistic *yet not in the same way* the protagonist is a woman who just reached her thirty and cannot find someone who can truly love her for who she is. Yet she has this guy *her best friend* by her side ever since high school but they can never be more than just friends. And of course in the show he is secretly in love with her this whole time. There was a scene where Ariel *female protagonist* realize why Wilson *male protagonist* said he can never love her. It’s because when you start to feel like you have something, it is actually the start of a loss. So if he gets with her, there might be a chance that they will lose each other and nobody wants that. I feel that it is SO TRUE. But then at the same time, it’s the simple question, “Would you have rather love and lost, or never love at all?” Everybody claims there is no pure friendship between a boy and a girl, especially when you get so close. Eventually you get either get together or break apart but why? That is a question I want to figure out too.
So is love just infatuation? Or is it the getting used to be with somebody and being comfortable with them although the word ‘love’ was never mentioned? Because like the show said, love is sort of like soda. In the beginning you would get the bubbly feeling, and as time goes by, the bubbles disappear and all there is left is just the sweet syrup. Then you would want to get a new soda. Is it really? Should we find ourselves a new type of drink that won’t lose its colors even as time goes by? Wine? Because it gets better with age, but then supposedly it’s a type of drink to describe men. And milk is to describe women. They always like them fresh, everybody just throws the old stuff away. Oh how sad. It seems like water is the best option if you don’t want something to go bad. However, it’s just plain and unexciting, do you want that as your love?
I am definitely looking forward to the ending of this show. I want to know how they come up with a decision. As much as I want Ariel to be with Wilson, I feel like it won’t happen for some odd reason *although idol dramas are typically happy ending*. It’s unfair to Wilson, but hey, life is unfair.
“朋友是什麼?朋友是可以一起同樂,一起難過,是可以拉你一把的人,犯了錯,可以糾正你的人”
生活並不完美.但並不代表它不美
多看看生活當中美的部分吧
否則
我們永遠會有羨慕不完
別人的人生
(Source: michelleyeung)
『感覺』有時候，會是一種『錯覺』
我可能不會愛你
(via michelleyeung)there are so many life truths and realities.
你知道我們家生活了三十年
你都不懂一個道理嗎？
一個家喔 一定有一個唱歌的
旁邊的人都在幫他伴奏那如果你和丁立威
兩個都很愛唱歌
兩個都在搶麥克風
這樣子怎麼行啊？所以我要把麥克風讓給他喔？
讓？ 讓什麼讓？
喔…你以為只有讓一場婚禮而已喔？
不是咧
要讓十年 讓二十年 讓三十年 甚至讓一輩子
你受得了嗎？媽媽跟你講喔
幸福美滿的婚姻不是讓出來的
是要從內心裡面這樣發出來地接受
